tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32061865.post1769906089792472455..comments2023-10-12T10:54:33.418-07:00Comments on Atlas Winks: Are you still in love with your husband?Annie-go-lightlyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13447830201531930756noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32061865.post-17307967473941690552009-07-04T18:30:55.170-07:002009-07-04T18:30:55.170-07:00What a mature way to look @ marriage. We have been...What a mature way to look @ marriage. We have been married 32 yrs.I view my marriage more as an agreement.Do you ever really get over his affair, even though "nothing happened","I was just going through a bad time in my life","I never said that","I've pushed it all away","I'm sorry"? I do believe nothing "happened" because he was too afraid of the consequences,like I met someone else,I was not going to lay down and die because of his beloved Lorraine,my son would have been a tough force to reckon with,he might have been viewed as a "bad boy" by his family members. Is "she" out of his life (after 30yrs.,yeah 30 yrs.!)yes, I believe so,she probably moved onto another sucker. Can I move on? At times I believe I have,can't live without him etc.(the physical attraction has never returned on my part)and @ other times I question myself and become mad @ myself for just not getting over it.What's a woman to do?Smile?Be good?Obey?Not question?Be thankful?Stop being negative?Be thankful that someone still loves my fat ass,wrinkles and crazy self?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32061865.post-77721922022128947882009-04-18T13:33:00.000-07:002009-04-18T13:33:00.000-07:00Thank you. I've only been married for a 1 1/2 year...Thank you. I've only been married for a 1 1/2 years (but we've been together for 7)and you're blurb makes me feel so much better because I feel the exact same way. <br />We had a baby 8 months ago and I knew things would change, but unfortunately, the change has not been that good for our relationship. Definitely tolerable, but not great. I know that the up will come eventually...it always does:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32061865.post-90961235570664278342007-03-27T11:13:00.000-07:002007-03-27T11:13:00.000-07:00What a great description of a marriage. Wow. Even ...What a great description of a marriage. Wow. Even with 17 years experieince, I don't know how those things are supposed to be. How they are supposed to work. <BR/><BR/>Verbing the noun seems like a good strategy!Pelagian Poethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05748315860744933803noreply@blogger.com